Etiquette Guide #1:

Considerate Cruisers Use mysexlifeonline’s Rules to Meeting Online

1.    Have a picture of your face to trade, not just a close-up of your sleazy parts. 

2.    If you say you’re going to send your picture, you must send it, even if you think the other person is ugly.

3.    Your picture should actually look like you (and be you)… it should not be fuzzy, and you should not be far away.  You probably shouldn't use that picture with you next to your mother either.

4.    If you exchange pictures and find the other person unattractive, gently express to them that they are "not your type." 

5.    If someone abruptly stops speaking to you, don’t don’t obsess about why- some people are just uncivilized.  Move on.

6.    Don’t stalk people online who are obviously not interested in you.  You have better things to do.

7.    Just because you can be relatively anonymous online does not give you license to be an asshole.

8.    If you want to know whether the person has HIV (or another STD), ask them their HIV status- not if they’re “healthy”.  If someone asks you, answer honestly.  Don’t just assume that the person has the same status that you do.

9.    If you have a profile or description of yourself, proofread and spell-check for godsakes.  Learn about homonyms… “your” and “you’re” are not the same.  Good grammar is always sexy, darling. 

10.  When writing your self-description, it’s helpful to give some details describing yourself and what you’re looking for.  If you’re only looking for trannies into bondage, say so and don’t waste everyone else’s time. 

11.  Don’t lie about what you look like if you ever intend to meet the person to whom you’re talking.  Keep your age and measurement number changes within the range of plausibility.

12.  Just because someone says in their profile that they’re a stud or “very good looking” doesn’t mean you’re going to think so (or that anyone besides their mother will think so for that matter).  That’s why people exchange photos.    

13.  It’s not polite to lead someone on when in reality you have no intention of ever coming together.

14.  Just because you’ve had some intense online conversations does not mean this person is now your “boyfriend”.  You have to at least meet in person first.

15. Don't take yourself too seriously- have fun!

Link to this page in your personal profile so that others can learn about proper etiquette!

Coming Soon- Etiquette Guide to Public Sex and Threesome Etiquette.  Have a suggestion to rules for these topics?  Write us!

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